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The Family Trauma Center
Surviving Trauma
Shock. Suffering. Distress. Pain.
No matter how you put it, being involved
in a serious accident is a life-altering experience. You,
your family, all those affected by a sudden tragedy may
find daily life much more difficult than before the accident.
Fortunately, there is help. And the first steps to comforting
yourself and your loved ones involve understanding the symptoms
from a traumatic event, managing these symptoms, and ultimately
recovering from them.
1. How do traumatic
experiences affect people?
2. What do trauma survivors need to
know?
3. How can Family Recovery Group help
me and my family?
4. Meet Chaplain Smalley, Our Trauma Specialist

1. How do traumatic experiences affect
people?
Families who experience trauma such as a major
car accident often experience strong emotional reactions
afterwards, also known as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
(PTSD). PTSD is recognized by medical and mental health
professionals. Many people with PTSD repeatedly re-experience
the ordeal in the form of flashback episodes, memories,
nightmares, or frightening thoughts, especially when they
are exposed to events or objects that remind the survivor
of the trauma. Anniversaries of the event can trigger symptoms
while those with PTSD also experience emotional numbness,
sleep disturbances, depression, anxiety, and irritability
or outbursts of anger. Feelings of intense guilt are also
common. Most people with PTSD try to avoid any reminders
or thoughts of the ordeal. PTSD is diagnosed when symptoms
last more than 1 month.
The seriousness of PTSD depends on many things,
including the following:
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The survivor’s life experiences before the trauma |
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A person’s own natural ability to cope with
stress |
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The seriousness of the accident or injuries |
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The care a person receives from family, friends, and
professionals immediately following the traumatic experience. |
To learn more about symptoms of PTSD,
click
here.
2. What do trauma survivors
need to know?
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Serious accidents happen to many competent, healthy,
strong, good people. No one can completely protect themselves
from traumatic experiences. |
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People who negatively react to traumatic events are
not going crazy. What is happening to them is part of
a set of common symptoms that are connected with the
tragic situation. |
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Having symptoms after a traumatic event is not a
sign of personal weakness. Many mentally and physically
healthy people develop PTSD after a tragic accident. |
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Recognizing the effects of trauma and knowing more
about PTSD symptoms will help determine whether professional
aid is needed. |

3. How can Family Recovery Group help
me and my family?
Family Recovery Group understands the need
for you and your loved ones to effectively recover from
your injuries, whether physical, emotional, or both. You
want life to return to the way it was before the accident.
That’s why we have trauma specialists on staff who
can assist you and your family through these troubling times.
So take the time to browse through our services. Let Family
Recovery Group help you and your family get back on track.
Trauma
Assessment Check – tests with results
reviewed by our Licensed Family Therapist.
Make an Appointment
–talk with Chaplain Bob Smalley, Trauma Specialist.
Local
Trauma Therapists – find a professional
therapist nearest you.
| Find
Out More |
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order a “Surviving Traumatic
Stress” audio book series, produced by Minirith-Meier
Clinic. |
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order a brochure for more
information on our family recovery solutions. |
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4. Meet Chaplain Smalley, Our Trauma
Specialist
Bob Smalley currently serves as Chaplain for
the FBI, the Los Angeles Fire Department, and the American
Red Cross. He has been involved in combined responses to
several of the world’s most traumatic events, including
the explosion of U.S. Air Flight 800, the Alaska Airlines
crash, and the Singapore Air disasters.
As part of the FBI's Western Regional Critical
Incident Response Team, he participated in the stress management
debriefings at the Pentagon following the 9/11 terrorist
attacks and in Littleton, Colorado following the shootings
at Columbine High School. He was also involved in the debriefing
process following the L.A. riots, the Northridge earthquake,
and the recent American missionary kidnapping incident in
the Philippines.
Chaplain Smalley holds a Masters Degree in
Christian Apologetics from BIOLA University. He has lectured
on stress management in both the U.S. and abroad.
Bob is married and has four daughters and
six grandchildren.
EDUCATION/TRAINING:
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Master of Arts - School of Professional Studies- BIOLA
University, 2001 |
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Bachelor of Arts - Sociology - California State University,
Long Beach, 1971 |
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Associate of Arts - Psychology - Long Beach City College,
1967 |
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Critical Incident Stress Management Instructor Training |
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Fire Department Officers Leadership Training |
PROFESSIONAL LICENSES/CERTIFICATES:
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Mobil Intensive Care Paramedic, Los Angeles Fire Department
- 21 years |
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Critical Incident Stress Debriefing - 15 years |
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Teaching Credential - Life |
PROFESSIONAL EXPERTISE:
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Emergency Medical Training |
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Critical Incident Stress Management |
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Grief Counseling |
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Funeral Planning |
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Health Occupations Department |
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